Find Real Connections in an Exclusive, Verified Dating Community!
- Only 1,000 Members from Birmingham
- Over 30’s
- Sign up today or join the waitlist when spaces have run out.
A Dating Community That Puts Real People First
Modern dating apps can feel overwhelming – swiping, ghosting, and endless small talk with strangers who may not even be real.
At 11 Dates, we do things differently. We are an exclusive online dating community designed to foster authentic connections in a structured and safe environment.
✔ No Fake Profiles – Every member is identity-verified before joining.
✔ No Ghosting – if you’re here, you’re serious about meeting someone.
✔ No Endless Messaging – You meet real people face-to-face in our online speed dating events and socials.
Why We Created 11 Dates
“We created 11 Dates because we wanted something real.
Too many dating apps focus on quick matches and endless conversations that go nowhere.
We believe in a dating experience that brings people together in a structured, supportive, and fun way.”
✔ Create a welcoming space for people looking for meaningful relationships.
✔ Offer structured dating events that take the stress out of meeting someone new.
✔ Build a genuine community where members can support and advise each other on dating experiences.
Memberships Are Open! Secure your spot today↓
Choose Your Membership
Explorer Membership
(Monthly)
£19.99 per month
Perfect for those taking their first step into a more intentional dating experience.
A relaxed, no-pressure way to meet new people and join the community.
Access to The Community
RSVP to free mixers
Invitations to online speed-dating sessions (pay per event)
Access to updates, news, and member announcements
Eligibility for The 11 Lounge after attending two events
A simple starting point for people who want to explore — without the overwhelm of typical dating apps.
Connector Membership (Six-Monthly)
£14.99 per month (billed as £89.94 every six months)
Designed for those ready to commit to the experience and build genuine connections with like-minded people across Birmingham.
Includes everything in Explorer, plus:
Priority booking for popular events
Early invitations to new dates & mixers
Exclusive member savings on selected events
This tier creates a smoother, more personalised experience — ideal for members who want consistency and the best access.
11 Lounge
Invite-only, unlocked after attending two events.
Your next-level space within 11 Dates.
A quieter, more refined environment created for members who show up, take part, and genuinely want to meet someone.
Once unlocked, members receive:
Full profile visibility
Private messaging
Invitations to exclusive in-person events
Access to The Lounge — a more curated space for meaningful conversations
No extra cost. No application form.
Just show up, be part of the community, and the door opens naturally.
♥ Limited to 1,000 members in Birmingham. Once full new applicants will be placed on a waiting list.♥
What to Expect
As a member of 11 Dates
Community Support
Access to The Lounge - a forum for advice, dating tips, and discussions
A Safe, Verified Space
Every member is identity-verified to eliminate catfishing and fake profiles
Structured Speed Dating
Meet 11 new people in one night via our online events
No Swiping, Just Real Conversations
Say goodbye to endless messaging and meet people face-to-face
Exclusive Membership
Only 1,000 members (no overcrowding, no fake profiles)
Matchmaking That Works: Get Connected After the Event
Submit your matches privately, and if both choose each other, we connect you so you can continue the conversation.
The Lounge
As a member, you’ll have access to The Lounge, our private community space where you can:
✔ Ask questions and get dating advice from other members.
✔ Get support after events and discuss experiences.
✔ Find exclusive tips on building confidence, first dates, and relationship advice.
What Happens If Memberships are Full?
Join the Waitlist – Be Notified When a Spot Opens!
📍 We are currently only accepting 1,000 members from Birmingham. (And surrounding areas) Once we reach capacity, new applicants will be placed on the waiting list.
🎟 Want to be part of 11 Dates? Register your interest below, and we’ll notify you when a place becomes available, or we expand to new locations.
Join The Waitlist
We would love for you to be part of our online community. So if we are complete full we will keep your details and notify you as soon as one of our members has found love and released their place for you ♥
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