Find Real Connections in an Exclusive, Verified Dating Community!

 

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  • Over 30’s
  • Sign up today or join the waitlist when spaces have run out.
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A Dating Community That Puts Real People First

Modern dating apps can feel overwhelming – swiping, ghosting, and endless small talk with strangers who may not even be real.

At 11 Dates, we do things differently. We are an exclusive online dating community designed to foster authentic connections in a structured and safe environment.

No Fake Profiles – Every member is identity-verified before joining.

No Ghosting – if you’re here, you’re serious about meeting someone.

No Endless Messaging – You meet real people face-to-face in our online speed dating events and socials.

Why We Created 11 Dates

“We created 11 Dates because we wanted something real.

Too many dating apps focus on quick matches and endless conversations that go nowhere.

We believe in a dating experience that brings people together in a structured, supportive, and fun way.”

Create a welcoming space for people looking for meaningful relationships.

Offer structured dating events that take the stress out of meeting someone new.

Build a genuine community where members can support and advise each other on dating experiences.

Memberships Are Open! Secure your spot today↓

Choose Your Membership

Explorer Membership

(Monthly)

£19.99 per month

Perfect for those who want to start their journey and meet new people.

Access to The Community

RSVP for free mixers
Invitations to speed-dating events
Eligibility for The 11 Lounge upgrade after two events 

Connector Membership (Six-Monthly)

£14.99 per month (billed as £89.94 every six months)

It is designed for those ready to fully commit to the experience and build real connections.

Everything in Explorer Membership
Early invitations to new events
Exclusive membership savings

11 Lounge (Unlocked)

Once you have attended two events.

Receive an Invite directly in your inbox

Full Profile Access
Private Messaging
Invitation To Exclusive In-Person Events  Lounge Access

Limited to 1,000 members in Birmingham. Once full new applicants will be placed on a waiting list.

What to Expect

As a member of 11 Dates

Community Support
Community Support

Access to The Lounge - a forum for advice, dating tips, and discussions

A Safe, Verified Space
A Safe, Verified Space

Every member is identity-verified to eliminate catfishing and fake profiles

Structured Speed Dating
Structured Speed Dating

Meet 11 new people in one night via our online events

No Swiping, Just Real Conversations
No Swiping, Just Real Conversations

Say goodbye to endless messaging and meet people face-to-face

Exclusive Membership
Exclusive Membership

Only 1,000 members (no overcrowding, no fake profiles)

Matchmaking That Works: Get Connected After the Event
Matchmaking That Works: Get Connected After the Event

Submit your matches privately, and if both choose each other, we connect you so you can continue the conversation.

The Lounge

As a member, you’ll have access to The Lounge, our private community space where you can:

✔ Ask questions and get dating advice from other members.
✔ Get support after events and discuss experiences.
✔ Find exclusive tips on building confidence, first dates, and relationship advice.

What Happens If Memberships are Full?

Join the Waitlist – Be Notified When a Spot Opens!

📍 We are currently only accepting 1,000 members from Birmingham. Once we reach capacity, new applicants will be placed on the waiting list.

🎟 Want to be part of 11 Dates? Register your interest below, and we’ll notify you when a place becomes available, or we expand to new locations.

Join The Waitlist

We would love for you to be part of our online community. So if we are complete full we will keep your details and notify you as soon as one of our members has found love and released their place for you ♥

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