1. Who can join 11 Dates?
✔ Anyone over 30 who is genuinely looking for a connection.
✔ We currently accept 1,000 members (500 men & 500 women) to create a balanced dating experience.
2. How do I sign up for a speed dating event?
1️⃣ Become a member by signing up on our website.
2️⃣ Book your spot at an upcoming speed dating event.
3️⃣ Receive your Zoom link and event instructions.
4️⃣ Join the session and meet 11 new people in one evening!
3. How does the event work?
Each event lasts 90 minutes and follows a structured format:
- 15 minutes – Introduction from the host + short self-introductions.
- 60 minutes – 11 dates, 5 minutes each, in private breakout rooms.
- 10 minutes – Optional after-chat for further conversations.
- After the event – Submit your matches privately. If it’s mutual, we’ll connect you!
4. How much does it cost?
💰 Membership:
- Explorer Membership (Monthly): £19.99 per month.
- Connector Membership (Six-Monthly): £14.99 monthly (billed as £90.00).
🎟 Speed Dating Events:
- £20 per event.
💡 First-time attendees get a discount of 50% on their first event!
5. How do I know I’m talking to a real person? (No Catfishing Policy)
We take member verification seriously to ensure a safe and authentic dating experience.
✔ Step 1: Identity Verification
All members must submit one valid form of photo ID (passport, driving licence, or national ID) at registration.
✔ Step 2: Live Selfie Check
Upon signing up, members must submit a live selfie (taken within the platform) that matches their ID.
✔ Step 3: Video Welcome Call (Optional for Extra Security)
Members may be invited to a one-time short video call with our team before attending their first event for extra peace of mind.
🚨 Anyone who fails to verify their identity will not be allowed to participate.
6. How do I submit my matches after the event?
After the event, you’ll receive a private link to select who you want to match with.
- If both people select each other, we’ll connect you via email or private message.
- If there’s no mutual match, your details remain private.
7. What if I have technical difficulties on Zoom?
✔ Test your connection before the event – make sure your camera & microphone are working.
✔ If you have issues during the event, our host will assist you.
✔ If you drop out, we’ll do our best to get you back in or offer you a credit for a future event.
8. Can I invite a friend to join?
Yes! If you’ve attended an event and enjoyed the experience, you can invite a friend to apply for membership.
9. How do I upgrade to the Inner Circle?
Members who attend two or more events are automatically upgraded to the Inner Circle, unlocking:
🔓 Full member profile access.
🔓 Private messaging with connections.
🔓 The ability to invite new members to events.
10. What makes 11 Dates different from other dating platforms?
✨ Real People Only – Verified members only, no catfishing.
✨ No Endless Messaging – Meet real people, not just profiles.
✨ Small, Exclusive Community – No swiping, just meaningful interactions.
✨ Genuine Matches – No algorithms, just real connections.